Here are five (5) things you never should do to your partner to enjoy a blissful and peaceful marital sojourn.
Comparing Your Partner With Someone
Else It is never a good or brilliant idea to compare your partner with another person.
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Picture By Life Moments Media. Tatenda Gowe and Darlington Nemutambwe. |
Constant Lies
Lies are never welcome guests in a relationship. They only breed distrust, hurt and irritation. Seriously, the way some lie, even the devil would be forced to marvel. Building a relationship on the foundation of lies; moulding and patching it with lies, would only end up crumbling on lies and probably crushing a life.
Being An Irritable Source Of Nagging
Every person looks towards his/her partner as a source of happiness when sad, comfort when distressed, calm when angry, encouragement when down, and smile when stressed up. However, no one enjoys being in the presence of someone who nags one like (s)he is under the influence of some territorial powers. Frustrating the life out of your partner is a liberal invitation for emotional distantness and eventual separation.
Showing Your Partner Little or No Respect
Respect for your partner here doesn’t imply reverencing him/her like: His royal majesty or Her royal highness, etc. It means giving him/her regard by not doing the things that (s)he detest.
Badmouthing Him/Her To Others
Involving a third, fourth or hundredth party in your relationship should always be done with caution and prudence.
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Picture By Life Moments Media. Precious Fombe, Danai Muzunze and Tatenda Gowe. |
If, as a matter of fact, you discover that you can’t just break the habit or you seem to derive some pleasure from this, you might need more than a deliverance, you need a total overhauling. If you’ve been engaged in any of the above or have a contrary opinion, kindly share your thoughts.
By Kalejaye Abayomi